Passengers are deeply divided about personal space on planes. Passengers are deeply divided about personal space on planes.
Market research firm CivicScience finds that passengers are deeply divided about personal space on planes.
It reported that 78% of U.S. adults agree that the window seat has control of the window shade.
Only 21% of adults surveyed said the middle seat has the right to both armrests; 53% said it does not.
Interestingly, of the 21% who think the middle seat has the right to both, the majority are men. (The correct answer in just a moment.)
The short answer is: You don't. Go for a cease-fire instead. Many airlines have quietly stripped almost everything that once came with economy-class tickets, including a generous amount of personal space.
Armrests: They only belong to you if you're sitting in the middle seat. And who wants to sit in a middle seat? "The rule is, if you share an armrest, the person in the middle generally gets to use both," says etiquette consultant Lisa Grotts.
If you're in an aisle or window seat, yield to the passenger in between and be careful when you move your elbows," she adds.
Overhead luggage bin: That's community property, no matter where you're sitting. But you can't store whatever you want in one of them. "Jackets and oversized garments belong on the floor in front of the passenger on packed flights," explains frequent flier Jawn Murray. "It is totally inconsiderate to fill up limited overhead space with bulky coats when people are trying to keep from checking their carry-on bags and need the overhead space."
Space in front of your seat: It's yours, mostly. Airline insiders I've talked to describe it as a "shared" space that belongs to you by default until someone leans into it. "Leaning your seat back should include a quick ask of the person directly behind you," says frequent air traveler Michael Alexis.
Space under the seat in front of you: That's yours, within limits. If your carry-on bag is so large that it pushes into the personal space of the person in front of you, then you're back to negotiating with the passenger in that seat.
Window shade: If you're sitting in the window seat, you control it - mostly. "For the window shade, you don't own it as much as you are responsible for it," says veteran business traveler Jeffrey Walsh, who founded a social network for travelers called Nomo FOMO.
"If you are looking out of the window and trying to enjoy the sunset, then you can keep it up to enjoy. However, you should take into consideration others around you." For example, if you're not looking out the window on a long flight and the sun is low on the horizon, causing a glare, consider closing the shade.
Passengers should have enough space in the overhead bins, in their seats and below their seats. But eliminating space is part of the airline business model, says Brent Bowen, an Embry-Riddle Aeronautical University professor who publishes the Airline Quality Rating.
"They want to take the space away from you - and then sell it back," he says.
Did passengers ask for any of this? If so, I haven't heard from them. Airlines argue that the squeeze is a result of customer demand for cheaper seating.
All of which brings us back to the upcoming space war. This fall, know your territory, negotiate a detente and never forget who is responsible for the guy who leans all the way back, squeezing you even tighter into an economy-class vise grip.