How to keep your cat happy and actions that hurt their feelings

If you’ve ever noticed your cat withdrawing from you after being scolded, it’s not just your imagination. 

Cats, like humans, have emotions and can feel hurt when they perceive negative interactions.  

Felines are often compared to toddlers in terms of intelligence, and this extends to their emotional capabilities. 

Research indicates that cats can experience six primary emotions—surprise, fear, disgust, sadness, happiness, and anger—similar to a child around two and a half years old.  

So, what actions can upset your cat, and how can you mend their trust if you've unintentionally hurt their feelings?  

Common ways you might be upsetting your cat without realising it

Ignoring them when they seek attention

Cats develop social bonds with both their feline counterparts and their human companions. If you frequently ignore your cat when they try to engage with you, it can lead to stress and anxiety. Regular interaction and meaningful engagement are essential for their emotional well-being.  

Lifting an adult cat by the scruff of the neck  

While mother cats carry their kittens this way, adult cats have outgrown this phase. Lifting them by the scruff can cause unnecessary strain on their neck and spine, potentially leading to injuries such as muscle strain or fractures. Always support their body properly when picking them up.  

Forcing them into uncomfortable situations  

Whether it’s excessive handling, dressing them up when they clearly dislike it, or pushing them into interactions with unfamiliar pets or people, forcing a cat into uncomfortable situations can create stress and fear. Respect their boundaries and let them engage at their own pace.  

Punishing them for misbehaving  

It may seem like discipline is the best way to correct bad behaviour, but cats do not understand reprimands in the same way humans or even dogs do. Yelling, scolding, or using physical punishment can confuse and distress them rather than teach them the right behaviour. Positive reinforcement works far better.  

Abandoning or surrendering them  

Giving up on a pet because of behavioural issues or inconvenience can be heartbreaking for them. Cats form deep bonds with their humans, and abandonment—whether leaving them outdoors or surrendering them to a shelter—can cause significant emotional distress.  

Other habits that can upset your cat  

Inconsistent feeding times

Cats thrive on routine, and feeding them too early or too late can lead to anxiety. Sticking to a regular feeding schedule helps maintain their sense of security.  

Neglecting their litter box – a dirty litter box not only disrupts their routine but can also expose them to health risks, including urinary tract infections and respiratory issues. Regular cleaning is essential to prevent bacteria and parasite build-up.  

How keep your cat happy  

If your cat seems upset, creating a calm and comfortable environment, engaging in play, and offering affection can help restore their happiness. 

The good news is that cats don’t have strong short-term memory, so they’re unlikely to dwell on small mistakes.

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