Buy yourself a little gift for the soul

The ‘lipstick index’ has shown that when times are tough, small treats go a long way to giving people a happiness boost. Picture: Pexels

The ‘lipstick index’ has shown that when times are tough, small treats go a long way to giving people a happiness boost. Picture: Pexels

Published Jul 15, 2023

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Kokho Jason Sit

Life today is stressful. Since the start of the pandemic, social media has been flooded with coping mechanisms and well-being trends to help people manage their emotions and worries about the state of the world.

If you’ve tried therapy and “hot girl walks”, you might also have heard of the latest life hack: buying yourself a little treat.

Inflation and the high cost of living are putting holidays and luxury goods out of reach. In their place, indulgences like coffees, ice cream or lipstick can deliver pleasure in small doses.

Treats are neither expensive nor a huge commitment. The ideal treat might be from a shop within walking distance of your home or office. You might even think of an episode of “guilty pleasure” television as a treat ‒ a mid-afternoon peek at your favourite TV show, for example.

“Treat culture” is not an entirely new concept. You might have heard it called the “lipstick index”, the theory that consumers buy low-cost luxuries to boost their moods in difficult times. There is a wealth of research on “compensatory consumption”, where people spend money to deal with perceived threats to their self-esteem, confidence or happiness. Treat culture is “retail therapy”, but with a focus on small, inexpensive purchases rather than a shopping spree.

In recent research, I examined how consumers use shopping to cope with difficult times. During the pandemic, when people were restricted from dining out, they would instead buy higher-quality items at the grocery store. Eating better at home, even if the cost was higher than the usual shop, was a treat for people.

Taking a short break to enjoy time in a pretty garden soothes us when we’re stressed. The time taken to do so is the treat. Hannah Schwalbe/Flickr

Treat culture isn’t just about the treat itself, it’s about the emotional experience ‒ that is, how you feel about purchasing and having the treat. As one report pointed out, the phrasing of buying yourself a “little” treat reflects an element of cuteness.

Cuteness can prompt powerful emotions of happiness, and remind us of nurturing and protective qualities. In a way, partaking in treat culture is a way to nurture ourselves. There is also a connection between cuteness and consumption, for example in Japanese culture, where the popularity of kawaii (cute) products is driven by a consumer desire to cope with stress and reconnect with their childhood self.

Emotions are a key part of great consumer experiences. Research shows that experiential purchases, like meals out or concert tickets, deliver greater satisfaction and happiness to consumers than products.

Chocolate is famed for increasing feelings of well-being in gloomy times.

Similarly, the positive emotions that come from buying a treat are not derived from the iced coffee or lipstick itself. They stem from the consumption experience ‒ taking a break from work, feeling you have earned the reward of a treat, and that you are doing something to care for your emotions.

Treat culture could easily be seen as a negative indulgence. It suggests frivolous spending, a lack of self-control and ignorance of financial risks like debt. Some commentators have argued that treat culture preys on young consumers’ insecurities, for example, about their skin, perpetuating a cycle of needing to buy more skincare products in search of easy “fixes” for imperfections.

But treat culture, I believe, is a low-risk way to experience a morsel of happiness in dark times. The cost is usually minuscule and you probably won’t be tempted to use a buy-now-pay-later scheme to finance it. To fully experience the satisfaction of treat culture, you should be able to buy and consume the product in person, for optimal instant gratification. So, spending debt is unlikely and post-purchase remorse is unnecessary.

Treat culture certainly has psychological benefits, helping uplift consumers’ emotions during difficult times. So, go ahead ‒ buy yourself a little treat. - The Conversation

  • Jason Sit is a senior lecturer in marketing and associate head (global) of the University of Portsmouth

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